| INTRODUCTION |
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| Dedication & Acknowledgements |
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| Introductory Welcome |
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| ACCENT ON GROWTH & DEVELOPMENT |
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| 10 Factors That Shape Our Attitudes and Behaviors |
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| Circles of Influence |
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| Recognizing Generational “Passdowns” |
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| The “Ideal Kid” |
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| Genetics and Environment Combine to Frame Behavior |
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| Learning Styles |
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| Some Things We Need to Know About Childhood Development Issues |
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| What Is “Normal” Behavior for the Pre-teen/Teen? |
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| Wellness and Balance is Essential for Successful Living |
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| Examining Our Hierarchy of Human Needs |
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| The Relationship of Life Events to Stress |
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| Tying All of These Developmental Concepts Together |
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| Self-Assessment |
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| ACCENT ON BUILDING GOOD COMMUNICATION SKILLS |
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| Precision, Congruency, and Clarity |
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| Communication Loop |
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| Basic Communication Viewpoints of Adult and Child |
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| The Importance of Understanding Body Language (Kinesics) |
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| The use of Space in Relationship to Communication (Proxemics) |
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| “THE Questions” Every Parent Should Ask |
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| “Thudders” – What Doesn’t Work in Verbal Communication |
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| The Power of “We” |
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| Other Powerful Words |
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| The Emotional Mirroring Technique |
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| Three-Part Assertion Sentences |
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| “What Are We Going to Do About It?” |
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| How Many Times? |
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| Technology and Communication |
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| Self-Assessment |
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| ACCENT ON SUCCESSFUL DECISIONMAKING SKILLS |
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| Graduated Decisionmaking |
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| At-risk Factors and Decisionmaking |
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| 10-Point Plan for Making Safer Decisions |
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| THE Questions, again |
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| Remaining Sane When Kids Make Choices |
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| Making Decisions About My Own Behavior As a Parent (mentoring) |
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| Self-Assessment |
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| ACCENT ON STRENGTHENING SELF-ESTEEM |
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| Defi nition of Self-esteem |
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| Elements of Self-esteem |
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| Thoughts, Feelings, and Actions |
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| Words |
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| Resolving conflict |
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| Self-Assessment |
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| ACCENT ON DEVELOPING A DISCIPLINE PLAN |
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| Defining Discipline |
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| “Time Out” – A Good Technique to Use With Young Ones |
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| A Word About Spanking: “To Spank or Not to Spank?” |
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| A Word About Anger |
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| A Discussion About Abuse |
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| What Teens Th ink of Violence and Why Kids Are Killing Kids |
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| The Importance of Consistency |
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| Deciding the House Rules |
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| Customizing Discipline Plans |
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| Specifi cally About Discipline for Pre-teens/Teens |
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| Self-Assessment |
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ACCENT ON ADDITIONAL RELATIONSHIPS: CO-PARENTING, STEP-PARENTING, TEEN PARENTING, AND GRANDPARENTING |
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| Co-Parenting |
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| Talking About Divorce |
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| Step-Parenting |
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| Teen Parenting |
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| Grandparenting |
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| Self-Assessment |
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| ACCENT ON PRACTICAL PARENTING PRACTICES |
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| Random Thoughts |
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| Resilience |
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| The Importance of Literacy |
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| The Importance of Financial Literacy |
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| The Importance of Understanding Nutrition Basics |
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| “Ten Moral Suggestions” |
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| Raising Self-reliant Children |
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| Dr. Leo Buscaglia |
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